Response from Sifu regarding how to handle chronic disease in your family.

Hi …,

We are happy to give you some Philosophy advice. I know it must be a very difficult case for you.

But it all depends on how old is your daughter, what kind of chronic disease, how long she has had this disease, how she behaves with this condition, what is your psychology to handle this in the past.

Without understanding all of this the answer will not be accurate for you.

Here we give you a general Philosophy hopefully it may help.

Big deal small deal, small deal no deal, no deal good deal.

It means, the reality problem is already a big deal, and if we take it heavy or serious the big deal become even bigger. Take the case as small deal, and become no deal, become good deal.

Good deal is a chance for you to develop kindness and care, with patience. This is a case as a test for your life developing calmness and unlimited love towards her and towards anyone who might have different kinds of suffering.

Once you take it in this direction, then calm patience, love and caring will all appear.

Best regards to you and your family. It is never easy to be a mum. But being a Mum is amazing.