How to create your own happiness filter.
Step one: Start with…
“I’m not happy because of my own lazy, insecure, possessive, big ego, searching heart, judging heart, comparing heart, my own greedy, arrogance, ignorance, naive.. stuck thinking on the past, worrying about the future, never live in present….all or this from myself.. :)”
Next step:
– Observe Buddhism you have learned already, where Dharma joy is for you, where philosophy you love can appear.
Then learn more creation ability to enjoy life. Whatever position, relationship, ppl, situation.. Always a way to enjoy life is true wisdom.
Sifu says: “I always have 100 different excuses to enjoy life right now… you have 100 reasons not to…”
Remain to observe ‘Joy without stupidity.’ Have good standard, not influenced by poison from outside AND inside.
Try to find a way not to get lost. Means, happiness can always be there, because life is like an illusion dream, keep changing non-stop never repeat. Your heart, and every life’s heart, always remain free. So the wise happiness comes from still see through illusion and then create a four eternal heart illusion. Not stuck and lost greedy to get something.
Take your time. No stress, no hurry. Light and free.